Knowing the power of observing and silence

 Hello readers, welcome to today's idea of knowledge " knowing the power of observing and silence"

Being someone who is extroverted by nature was very difficult for me to understand all these things, as I was that girl in the room who was the most loudest and talkative being ever. As I am growing day by day I am really able to understand how things should actually execute. we all have realized at some point in our life that we were way dumber the previous year than we are compared to the present one. to be really honest with you guys I realize all these things every year too.

Actually, its all right if we realize this, as we all know life is a journey, A journey of happy phases, sad phases, sorrows, joys, and many decisions which affect our lives equally and a journey is only successful when we learn our mistakes and move forward with better us. you know to understand all this I have a really good example for you all -; 

" We humans are like mobile phones, As phones do require updates, customization, and care to work efficiently. Same goes for humans ".

just like I said we humans do requires changes. the thing that I learn is to stay silent and observe things and reciprocate your answers very sophistically. instead of just being cold and rude to everyone and staying silent for no valid reason, you should be a " good listener". 

A study shows that if a person is a good listener, people are mostly attracted to that person eventually. it is basic human behavior that "they need someone who can hear about their problems and help them to solve them without judging them". 

automatically if you become a good listener you will be able to stay quiet and the required times and if you will speak less and observe more, people will start giving superiority to your points and decisions.

Being quiet doesn't mean you have tostay quit and not socialize enough with people. It's just always clear what you said and accountable enough to carry out your decisions and make them forward with confidence.  

I will meet you in the next ones till then gain knowledge and have fun bye 👋.

THAT INDIE